外语系方面有关论文范例,与《灰姑娘》中的处理人际关系的艺术相关发表论文

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ThefairytaleCinderellaisourfavorite.Weallreaditwhenweareyoung.Itentertainsusinsomanyways.Thereisabeautifulheroine,leadingahardlifewithherstepmotherandstepsisters.TheyallcallherCinderella.ThenwiththemagicalhelpfromherGodmother,Cinderellagoestotheball.SheissobeautifulthatthePrinceCharmingfallsinlovewithher.Theygetmarriedandlivehappilyeverafter.

ThethreestoriesarewrittenbyCharlesPerrault,JakobandWilhelmGrimmandGiambattistaBasile.AndtheirheroinesarecalledCinderella,AshputtleandZezolla.Inthefollowingparagraphs,Iwillshowyouthedifferencesandsimilaritiesamongthem.Theyareallbeautiful,butdotheyhavemeritsordefectsWhyaretheysuccessfulWhatdotheydototheirstepsisterswhentheygetmarriedtoPrincesThesequestionsexistarerelevanttoourdailyliveswhenwedealwithallkindsofrelationships.Readingthispaper,youwillknowwhatyoushoulddonomatterwhatsituationyoufindyourselfin.

1.Whenyouareinasocialrelationship等

(1)Whototellyourtroublesto.Whenyouareintrouble,whowillyouchoosetotellInGrimms’version,Ashputtle,whentreatedunfairly,doesnothingbutcryonhermother’sgrave.Sheonlyexpressesherfeelingstoherdeadmother.WhileZezolla,inBasile’sversion,unwiselyexpressesherfeelingstohergoverness.Inthestory,whenherfatherremarries,hebringshomeawickedwomantobeherstepmother.Zezollathenplainstohergoverness,expressingthewishthat“youcouldbemylittlemother”.Whenhergovernesshearsthat,shegivesZezollainstructions,killingherstep-motherandworkingonherfathertomarrythegoverness.Zezollashowsbadjudgmentinfollowinghergovernessonlytofindthatherlifeistotallychangedfromgoodtobadafterhergovernessbeeshernewstep-mother.Nooneknowsthewomanhassixdaughtersofherown.ShemanagestoletZezolla’sfather,herhusband,ignorehisowndaughter.(2).Beingassertive.Weallneedfortfromourclosefriendsbutwealsoneedtotakeappropriateactiontosolveproblems.Weareindependentfromeachother.InGrimms’version,whenAshputtlecanhavewhatevershewishesforfromthelittlebirdonthehazeltreeonhermother’sgrave,shestillgoestoherstepmothertoweepandbegtogototheball.Shebelievesinherstepmotherratherthanherownabilitytotakeconcreteaction.UnlikeAshputtle,Cinderella,inPerrault’sversion,showsthinkingabilitywhen“hergodmotheriswonderinghowshewouldmakeacoachman”.Sheofferstheadvicethat“Iwillgoandseewhetherthereisaratintherat-trap,wecouldmakeacoachmanofhim”.Sheplaysanactiverole,lendingahandtohelpthesituationmoveon,notsittingbackandwatching.Shouldn’twebeasassertiveashertoactforourselves(3).Beinghelpfulbutnotaggressive.It’sgoodtobehelpful,butnotinanaggressiveway.Zezollashowsusabadexampleofaggressiveness.Firstly,sheinsistsongettinghergovernessopinionofhowtomakehertakeplaceofherstep-mother.Thensheisdeterminedtocarryouthergoverness’plan“ineveryparticular”,andgoestoextremesbykillingherstepmother.Finally,sheinterferesinherfather’saffairstopersuadehimtomarrythegovernesswhenhehasnothoughtofdoingso.Notonlyisn’tsheentitledtodothis,butsheisaggressiveratherthanhelpful.

Later,whenZezollafeelslifeisharderthaneverbefore,sheknowstograspatthechancewhenites,cleverlymakingherfatherkeephispromisetogotoacaveofthefairies,“begthemtosendhersomegift”.Inthisway,shesucceedsingettingthemagicalhelpfromthefairies.Whenaskedbyafairywhatshewants,shegetstothepointthatshe“wouldlikesometimestoleavethehousewithoutthesistersknowingit”.Thistime,shechangesthesituationfromunfavorabletosatisfactoryinadeterminedway,notaggressive.

2.Whattodotocontributetoyoursocialrelationship

(1)Beingsensitivetoco-operate.ometimesitisagoodideatocooperatewithyourpetitors.Twoofourheroines,AshputtleandZezolla,maketheirsituationsmoredifficultbyfightingwithandhumiliatingtheirstepsistersunnecessarily.Thennodoubttheyareinabadrelationship.InBasile’sversion,whenthefeastdayse,Zezollagoeswhereherstepsistersgo.Threetimes“afterhavingexcitedtheenvyandwonderofhersisters”,sheleaves.Thenhersistersreturn“tovexandmortifyher”,describing“atlengthallthefinethings”thattheyhaveseenatthefeast.Shemakesnoresponseatthat.Theydon’ttalkwherevertheyare.However,inPerrault’sversion,Cinderellaperformssimpleactionstosaveherself.Attimes,shecooperateswithherstepsisters.Whentheyareexcitedlypreparingfortheball,she“madeusefulsuggestionsandevenofferedtodotheirhairforthem”.Theyacceptwillinglyforshehas“excellenttaste”.What’smore,attheball,whenherbeautyasaheavenlybeingwinsthePrince’sheart,sheoffersherstep-sistersfruitstopleasethem.Finally,whenhersistersreturnhomewithpleasure,shechatswit

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